Four things you should never say to your child
Words and phrases play a critical role in building the mindset of the kids. We destructively scold our kids without thinking of the effects on the child’s brain, which creates a lousy child’s personality. It depends on the parents and the teachers that in what way they develop the child’s character. We must encourage our children to achieve success in life without being involved in immoral or unhealthy activities. The teachers and instructors at MADE EASY SCHOOL adopted the best strategy to motivate the child rather than excessive scolding their mistakes. We must teach our children about their mistakes but in a friendly way. It is tempting to help your children in difficult times, but they need time to learn themselves. Excessive control of the leash does not allow them to learn.
“What’s wrong with you?”
When your tone is sympathetic, this sentence may be okay, but there will be a problem if it seems angry or irritated. “When a trustworthy adult — a child who is dependent on him — indicates that the child is in trouble, the child will learn and believe it. They will ask themselves what the problem is — they will not be able to find the answer. They may be relying on their limited life experience and knowledge, and they are likely to come up with something wrong that could have a lasting effect. Sometimes it can be quite extensive, such as “I’m not good enough” or “I am a bad person”. Even with treatment, the destruction of this internal information can take a lifetime to overcome
“You’ll never be any different”
In general, you should avoid using words like “always” and “never” when talking to your children, as this will make them hopeless. [Adults] like to talk about you never do, you will not, you cannot, you always will. Such statements put children in a negative or eternal box – show that they always recover in a certain way and cannot or unexpectedly improve.
“You’re, Okay?”
When your child is upset, do not rush to point out that everything is “good” right away – make sure they know they are feeling well. Your baby is crying because he is not in good health. Your job is to help him understand and process his feelings, not to ignore them. Try to hug him and acknowledge his feelings by saying, “This was a terrible fall.” Then ask him if he wants a bandage or a kiss (or both).
“You can be anything you want to be.”
Of course, parents want their children to have ambitious goals, and you want to encourage them to achieve those goals. But at the same time, it is not always wise to tell them that they can be whatever they want. Pursuing overly ambitious goals can be detrimental and can have serious adverse effects, such as moral behavior. “Telling children that they can do anything – whether it’s imagination or hard work” plays a key role in success. Not all kids who want to be a surgeon or a sports star can be surgeons. Even if they work hard at the same time, every success is lucky to reach. It is vital to be selective in how we treat our children in different situations and what we say to them. Parents are the prime institution for any child. The way they are brought up reflects in their personality throughout their lives.
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